Good game means game's good

As Jim mentioned in his blog, we were kindly invited to go play golf by Garth Prentice, the general manager of the division of Shawcor we are placed currently. A great day was had by all and, despite numerous games and side bets, the proceedings ended without any cash changing hands (neither a source or use). In hindsight a draw was the fair result, however, it got me thinking about how playing golf has sometimes allowed me to have an unfair advantage in business.

On several occasions in my career, I have been invited to golf days and events that other non-golfing colleagues have missed out on. I’ve met many significant business people and formed personal ties and relationships with them. I can think of at least two occasions where I was placed in a consultancy assignment through a conversation I had on the golf course. Up until this point, reading this would suggest that golfers have an unfair advantage over non golfers in business, and to an extent I would say that is true, as long as the target contact/relationship also enjoys golf. However, I feel that the more important point is that having social and personal skills, hobbies and passions away from the office are key in providing the common-ground platform to do business - either with a new person in your network, or with an existing person with whom you needed an excuse to catch up.

I always enjoy finding out that someone I'm doing business with enjoys golf, not only because of the opportunity to spend time building a better relationship doing something fun, but by observing how someone approaches golf, or any passion or hobby, gives an insight into how that person may approach most things in their life. My assertion is that successful people are generally better golfers, footballers, bowlers, pool players etc... than the average Joe. Driven and passionate people find it difficult to be an A player in the office and a B or C player on the green. The reverse logic applies - someone who has practiced hard enough to become good at golf will generally work harder to succeed in the office. Being good at golf creates more opportunities - As a decent golfer, my boss would often want me to play in his team - and so the "success-spiral" begins.

As an employee, it is important to find common ground to create opportunities. As a leader, it is important to look at what individuals do outside of work, as well as how they do it, to get a flavour for their drive and passion. For better or for worse, I'd be tempted to pick the guy with the better handicap!

(Just to amuse you all, here's a piccy from the golf on Sunday!)

Si


Posted 26-May-2009 4:27 by Simon Boyle

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Jim Duffy wrote re: Good game means game's good
on 26-May-2009 16:01

A good point Simon.  A good leader gets to know his team and what motivates them....  A's hire A's...  So to fly like an eagle...we don't want to surround ourselves with turkeys...  especially when the turkey vultures were circling at the 14th green....!!  

Lesley Sutherland wrote re: Good game means game's good
on 26-May-2009 17:19

I would agree wholeheartedly that you must have life outside of work life.  That work/life balance is a tricky one but one which must be given time.  Otherwise that good leader will never become the great leader they could be if they burn out after x years.

How a team functions outwith the office is also a good indication of how they will function as a group and if observed by the leader carefully, it can, as you say, be a very useful tool.

Here at Monsanto, Hugh Grant spends time with staff at the ball game.  The proviso for being invited along is that you are either less than 1 yr working at Monsanto or less than 1 yr living in St Louis.  I observed Hugh taking time to speak with each and every attendee last week at the ball game.  An impressive site as there were easily 40 people there competing for his attention.  But he made everyone feel like they had his attention and he could observe how they connect/network out of the office.  Lets not forget he has a staff list of 22,000 employees!

Ruairidh Henderson wrote re: Good game means game's good
on 27-May-2009 1:11

Well said Simon, but what about ping-pong?  

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